I blocked my crazy stalking ex boyfriend, but now he’s reaching me through friends. What to do?

When it comes to rules of crazy ex partner, the rule #1 is never underestimate the madness some people might have. There are guys out there so unpredictable that it’s even scary to think about it. But as you are reading this, I hope the best, but I bet unfortunately your ex is this type of guy who goes legit maniac if you go no-contact.

He could be so desperate he uses all the energy he has left just to reach you out and make sure you have heard what he had to tell you.

It’s possibly nothing dangerous. Might be even polite apologize for some shit from the past he did. But Rule #2 is, “fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.” So in other words, if he is the manipulative type who will try every possible demeanor to get your attention, later only to use your reaction as weapon, escape. Escape fast and far. Hide from this serpent, he will hunt you forever.

And as you know, no-contact is more than common sense, but what should you do when this maniac is obsessed finding you no matter what. #3 Rule, make a backup plan with B- and even C. You are probably paranoid, but listen, you need to think rationally now. If you let the fear and your emotions take over you. It’s game over basically at that point. And that actually what he wants, to get you emotional so he has more control over you and upper hand.

Take it easy, think it as a chess. You need to now think a many steps a head and go through every possible scenario what this unpredictable creature might do. It’s not easy. It’s hard as fuck. But planning all the way end, you have already the counterattack in the case shit hits the fan. Learn more here about how to detect manipulators attempts and how to counterattack against them.

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